So even though dating while still breastfeeding seemed complicated, I had recently read Aziz Ansari’s new book, after a friend recommended it, and I was inspired to put myself out there.
Ansari makes a pretty solid case for using Tinder, especially for those in specific dating circumstances, like people with kids or of specific religions.
Again, we chatted a long time until finally I asked him out. When I lived in New York, guys never hesitated to ask me out.
We could have kept talking for hours if he hadn’t had to go pick up his son. About five minutes into our second date I could tell he wanted to kiss me, and I wanted to kiss him back.
We went to a restaurant on the beach and strolled along the shore afterward holding hands. One of the first things somebody warned me about before I had my daughter was the potential to get mastitis or thrush and how you should always wash your hands before you touch your nipple.
When I lived in New York City, I tried Tinder briefly but didn’t feel it was the right fit for me.
However, I was willing to try the dating app again.
It’s definitely easier now to just dive in, and because the stakes of a long-term relationship are higher, I’m less likely to stick around too long for a guy who isn’t right for me.
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Neither one of us left with any hard feelings, but I feel a lot more confident to continue dating now.
Since becoming a mom, I’ve shed a lot of insecurity, and my new outlook is serving me well in my dating life.
I’m a feminist single mom who lives with her parents, but if you think that’s as hilarious as I do, we might have something in common.
I swear to God I’m not a complete loser.”I figured I should just get right to the point.
I ended up swiping right on a handful of guys (signaling to them that I was interested), and most of them were matches. He had a good job, was kind of a foodie, and really into sports. The next guy, “Mike,” was pretty cute, a single dad, divorced, and also a few years older than me.